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Shouldn’t Technology Mean Better Communication?

April 25, 2013 By Cathy Miller 2 Comments

In ancient times (back when I was an early teen), we had our own cliques.

The Racks

Tough housewife in apron with cigarette and coffee cup

With their black eyeliner and beehive hairdos.

man is very similar to the King of Rock and Roll Elvis Presley

The Greasers

Who channeled Elvis long before Vegas.

Attractive young blond woman studio portrait isolated over white background

The In Crowd

Doesn’t every generation have one?

The Hippies and Flower Children came later.

Me? I was into sports, so I didn’t think I fit any of the cliques. Of course when you’re that age, a girl, and into sports, kids have another label for you.

Aren’t you glad we left all that behind?

Or did we?

Technology Advances(?)

Communication is the heart of relationships. Professional or personal, communication causes more joy, more angst than any other human trait.

  • Communication is the vehicle of expression
  • Communication shares what we know, what we feel

So, for all of our technology advances, wouldn’t you think we’d be better at communicating?

Instead, we are thrown back into our drama-filled teen years.

There are more ways to be ignored.

  • Silence greets posts on walls, Twitterdom, and the blogosphere
  • Connection requests go unanswered
  • Phone trees mean you never have to speak to another human

 There are more ways to be rude.

  • Insults hide behind faceless gravatars
  • Vicious attacks go viral
  • Gossip gathers speed

Think before you speak should now include – Think before you Send.

Connected, But Alone

I first saw this TED video of Sherry Turkle, MIT professor, at my writer friend, John Soares’ Productive Writers website.

If you have not seen the video, take the opportunity to do so. It’s almost 20 minutes in length, but I think it is well worth the time.

The video may get you thinking – and caring.

And isn’t that what communication is all about?

 

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Comments

  1. Anne Wayman says

    April 26, 2013 at 9:30 am

    I dunno, Cathy. There may be more opportunities to be ignored but there sure are also more opportunities to connect – look at us, in the same town for years and never met until you moved and we found each other online.

    Reply
    • Cathy says

      April 26, 2013 at 9:40 am

      I fully agree there is a very positive side to our enhanced form of communication. It helps me stay in touch with family members across the country and I see their children grow up through shared photos.

      This video simply resonated with me as I have observed the downside of too much of the technology good.

      I do appreciate your positive spin, Anne, which this Pollyanna needs to focus on. 😉

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